I'll say this for the record - I would love nothing more in this world than to be able to dance at my cousin Lea's wedding if she were finally able to marry her partner of 9 years, or raise a toast and embarrass hell out of my friend Jeff if he could marry his partner of 15 years, Alan.
But this goes beyond that (and to be quite honest, that's not entirely what the first statement above was addressing.)
The point I was trying to make was that yes, you have a right to your stance on that issue, or any issue just as the opposing side has to theirs. Social issues don't live in a vacuum, no, but in a sense, it's like bookkeeping. What's true on one side, has to be true on the other.
Side A calls bullshit, Side B calls bullshit. Zero gain. Well, no, not zero gain. Just a lot of anger and rhetoric being thrown around until the issue is so polarized there's no room for middle ground anymore. Just a lot of people yelling and an eventual devolution into a society of "us" versus "them" rather than two groups willing to find a neutral zone.
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But this goes beyond that (and to be quite honest, that's not entirely what the first statement above was addressing.)
The point I was trying to make was that yes, you have a right to your stance on that issue, or any issue just as the opposing side has to theirs. Social issues don't live in a vacuum, no, but in a sense, it's like bookkeeping. What's true on one side, has to be true on the other.
Side A calls bullshit, Side B calls bullshit. Zero gain. Well, no, not zero gain. Just a lot of anger and rhetoric being thrown around until the issue is so polarized there's no room for middle ground anymore. Just a lot of people yelling and an eventual devolution into a society of "us" versus "them" rather than two groups willing to find a neutral zone.